A home, what is the most important?

what is home?

Home is our strongest backing; home is the safe haven of our life; and home is the post station of our life.

the happiest thing in the world is to be a family together, talking and laughing.

it's really important to understand, respect and tolerate each other in a family.

01

understand

someone once asked such a question:

in fact, most silences are for a reason.

most of the time, we are silent because we feel that our family members cannot really understand their inner thoughts, and even if they express them, they will not be understood.

gradually, we give up communication and fall into silence. My friend A Xin, because she worked too long, she was tired and tired.

so she came up with the idea of changing her job. Out of courtesy, A Xin told his mother about his willingness to change jobs.

but unexpectedly, her mother interrupted her hastily before listening to A Xin's explanation, strongly disapproved of her changing her job, and gave a lot of reasons to tell A Xin why she could not change her job.

finally, he said painstakingly: "I do it for your own good."

these six words, let A Xin feel very sad, several times to the lips, and held back.

A Xin and his mother quarreled several times because of changing jobs.

A home is never a place where who controls whom, nor does it mean that anyone has to listen to whose wishes.

treat your family members and communicate more with each other, so that the family will have more "little joy"; if you treat the family members and understand each other more, the family will have more warmth.

the blessings of a family are often produced in the process of communicating with the family.

in a family, there is a kind of happiness, that is, understanding.

Learning to understand is the beginning of a happy family.

02

respect

Emerson Eglich talks about a "crazy circle" of marriage in his book.

if in a family, the husband has no love for his wife, the wife will feel lost and gradually will not respect her husband.

and when the husband feels that his wife does not respect him, he will also feel sad and no longer love his wife.

as a result, a marriage falls into a strange circle, and over time, there will be more and more contradictions and estrangement, and family relationships will become worse.

in fact, love and respect, and the relationship with family always complement each other.

if you want to run a good family, you should not only have love, but also know how to respect each other.

remember a story I read before.

according to legend, after Queen Victoria quarreled with her husband, the husband went back to his room to have a rest.

after a while, when Queen Victoria returned to her room, she found the door locked, so she knocked on the door and said, "Open the door. I am the Queen."

as a result, there is no response in the room.

the Queen knocked on the door again, and inside came the voice of her husband: "who is it?" The Queen replied, "Victoria."

but after waiting for a while, the door still didn't open.

the Queen continued to knock patiently, and the husband also asked, "who is it?" This time, the queen said softly, "it's your wife."

hearing this, the husband immediately opened the door and greeted her with a hug.

there is a saying in the movie Ip Man:

there is no man who is afraid of his wife, only a man who respects his wife. "

in a family, no matter who it is, you should know how to bow for love and respect each other.

you know, the warmest decoration of a home is precisely the respect for each other.

03

tolerance

there is a saying: "if there is discord between husband and wife, the family will fail."

indeed.

how can a family live a good life if it is always noisy and often fight over you and me for trifles?

A family can live a good life only if it is harmonious and happy.

the family will prosper only if the family is tolerant of each other and the family is harmonious.

the relationship between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang is a famous love.

when two people get along, they always give in to each other and tolerate each other.

once, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang took their daughter to a restaurant. As a result, her daughter often looked at the table next door.

so Yang Jiang told her daughter in a low voice, "Don't stare at others all the time, it's very impolite."

the child replied:

"I saw the parents at the next table quarreling and ignoring each other. Their children could only sit there motionless, looking at their parents sadly.

I think the loving children of husband and wife are very happy, so I especially thank my parents for making me a happy child. "

as the saying goes: the hearts of the people are United, Mount Tai moves.

in a family, the family is pleasant and humble to each other, so that life can be better and better.

A good family style is the most precious wealth of a family.

the best family style is to be tolerant of each other and know how to tolerate each other.

04

the movie Journey in search of Dreams said:

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"Family is more important than dreams."

No matter how many storms you have experienced outside, as long as you go home, you will not be afraid of anything.

because home is a loving, warm and beautiful place.