Please tell your child: "the true nobility is not birth, but upbringing!"

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not disturbing others is the most basic upbringing

what is upbringing? In essence, education is a person's self-cultivation emitted from the inside to the outside, reflected in the details.

sometimes, not disturbing others is not only a kind of self-cultivation, but also the most basic one.

A person's upbringing determines his acquired world outlook, outlook on life, the establishment of values, and the judgment and interpretation of all kinds of people and things.

Last year, Liyang's "most beautiful barefoot" parents went viral on the Internet. Netizens commented one after another that the mother's educated appearance was so beautiful!

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even People's Daily's official Weibo followed this positive energy event and retweeted it.

the educated mother is Kong Caifang, a midwifery nurse. Her son is studying in Class 15, Grade one of Liyang Middle School in Jiangsu Province.

before going to work, she found that her son had left his examination paper at home and was worried that he would need it in class, so she sent it to school.

when she walked up the teaching building, she was afraid that the sound of walking in high heels would affect the students' class, so she took off her shoes and walked barefoot in her hand.

this scene happened to be seen by teacher Zhang Chun, who was patrolling around at that time, so he photographed the back of the mother.

then she put these two photos into the teachers' working group. After being forwarded by other teachers, the photo is a good story on the Internet.

this is a very small thing, a very small move, but it has caused such a big response, indicating that one's upbringing has a great influence.

teaching is better than teaching. Your child's future is hidden in your appearance.

the mother's approach is not only to show respect for teachers and students, but also to reflect her awe of education.

there is a good saying that not to disturb others is the most comfortable upbringing.

in public places, we should pay attention to our own words and deeds, try not to affect others, do not bring trouble to others, which can reflect a person's upbringing.

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the true nobility lies not in birth, but in upbringing

I wonder if you still remember Li Tianyi, who was once a sensation.

now when people mention the name of Li Shuangjiang, they may think that it is not a famous singer or his famous song, but his son Li Tianyi.

Li Shuangjiang, who has a son in his old age, loves the only son so much that he reaches the point of serious doting.

in 2013, 17-year-old Li Tianyi was sentenced to 10 years in prison for rape, which was well known at that time.

maybe you don't know, when Li Tianyi was very young, he was selected as the ambassador of Chinese children's bid for the Olympic Games, and won many piano awards, and so on.

A child who has been so good since childhood should be better when he grows up, but he becomes a criminal overnight.

it can be said that it is the saddest thing to spend the good youth of life in prison.

having a good background and good family conditions did not make Li Tianyi an excellent teenager with good cultivation, connotation and quality, but became a well-known juvenile delinquent in the country.

the root cause is that there is something wrong with the family's self-cultivation, and the mistakes in the family's way of education directly lead to the problems with the children's upbringing.

Li Tianyi, who was known as the silver gun bully in Haidian District at that time, caused trouble many times by virtue of his recalcitrant character at that time, but Li Shuangjiang and his wife were just thinking about how to finish it.

however, he did not realize the need to exercise strict discipline over his son and help him recognize his mistakes, which led to bigger mistakes made by his son and completely ruined his life.

I would like to tell all parents not to spoil their children all the time and not to let their children have their temper.

Don't think that giving him the best living conditions and going to the best school is good for him.

parents should pay more attention to and understand their children. In fact, it is more important to teach a child how to behave correctly and do things to make him suffer more than to create a favorable family environment for him.

Don't let your child have the illusion that his family can take care of everything he has done wrong. This is not helping him, but harming him.

in addition, parents should set a good example for their children so that they can learn good qualities from you and become educated people.

upbringing is a precious treasure. Instead of leaving wealth to children, it is better to turn children into wealth.

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the most expensive is education, and the most difficult thing is to show respect, consideration and consideration to others everywhere.

the details show breeding, humility and nobility. A person who knows how to respect others is the truly noble person.

in a variety show, Dong Qing naturally chose to kneel for an interview in order to take care of Xu Yuanchong, a 96-year-old guest in a wheelchair.

she will speak slowly close to the old man's ear when asking questions. Also when looking at the old man, kneel lower and keep looking flat or up with the old man.

she knelt on the stage, talking and laughing with the old man, but gave the audience a proper comfort, nature and spring breeze.

an educated man gives people the feeling of "humble gentleman, gentle and moist as jade";

an educated woman gives people the feeling of "knowledgeable, gentle and virtuous".

so, the real upbringing is to make people feel comfortable!

on the subway, a child vomited because he was not feeling well. His father immediately apologized to the passengers around him and squatted down to clean up the vomit.

on the subway, the child held in the arms of the young mother fell asleep. She was afraid that the child would kick others and that her child's shoes would dirty other people's clothes, so she held them in her hands.

Grandma took her granddaughter across the road and motioned to her to thank the car owner who gave way for them. So the little girl bowed to the giving way, waved to the driver and said "thank you".

every child is like a blank piece of paper. And upbringing is the best gift for parents to give their children.

parents should teach their children and pretend to be others all the time. Know how to push yourself and others, and take into account the feelings of others.

the upbringing formed from an early age will be internalized into the course of a person's life, thus forming an important foundation of life.

upbringing is a pass for a child to walk the world on the road of growing up. Lack of upbringing will be punished by this society so that it is impossible to move a step further.

every educated child will be treated gently by the world.