The volume of your voice reveals your self-cultivation.

the higher the level of a person, the lower the volume of speech.

the more cultured you are, the more you know how to be humble and in awe, and you won't yell and become "dirty".

the volume does not determine the size of one's ability, but it can reveal a person's most real self-cultivation.

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finally, we fall into a volume contest. It seems that the louder the voice is, the better it will be.

in fact, raising the volume will not solve the problem, but will aggravate the contradiction.

it is better to convince people with reason than to suppress people with sound.

in the coffee shop, a customer yelled at the waiter loudly and insolently, saying that the black tea given to him was out of date.

the waiter looks aggrieved, but he can't argue.

the manager came over, looked at the black tea in the cup and said to the customer, I'm sorry, we'll get you a new one.

soon, another cup of black tea was brought exactly the same as before, with milk and lemon next to it.

the manager whispered, Sir, I suggest you put lemon and no more milk. Citric acid will make the milk agglomerate and look like it has gone bad.

the customer was so embarrassed that he took two quick drinks and left.

when things go wrong, they are unreasonable, but they struggle with the volume, which can easily make things get out of control.

Wisdom people know how to control their extreme emotions and solve problems calmly.

as the saying goes, reason does not lie in a high voice, and a soft voice is more powerful than a strong voice.

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since ancient times, the voices of dignitaries have been low

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the loudest and most beautiful sound is often silent. Speaking loudly is an instinct, and being able to lower the volume is the highest level of self-cultivation.

people who can control the volume well, know how to respect others, but also solemn themselves.

at dinner, the two companies sat together to talk business.

A man in the middle is dressed in a suit, full of spirit, talking and laughing and acting like a leader.

the person sitting next to him is lukewarm, gentle and without any airs. Everyone recognized the leader, made a frequent toast, and made all kinds of friends.

after three rounds of wine, while the "leader" was having a good time, someone suggested to him that it would be better to sign the order at the dinner table.

but he pushed out the unknown person around him, saying, I can't make the decision about the order, so I have to ask my boss.

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what's more, people who talk loudly in public places and like to yell when they go into the mountains and forests are often of low quality.

even if a person has outstanding ability and has no inner self-cultivation, he is only gold and jade in it.

if you control your volume, you will be a cultured and polite person.

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solid ink silent empty ink sound, full bottle does not move half bottle shake. You can be reasonable, but you don't have to turn up the volume; relax yourself, please don't make any noise.

capable people don't bluff, and people who respect others don't make noise.

A person's volume determines one's self-cultivation.

because of self-confidence, there is no need to make public. May you be a gentle and confident person for the rest of your life.