What does the best love look like?

one.

my cousin got married a few days ago. At his wedding, he sang a song, Zheng Jun's "elopement":

"in the city of desire, you are my last belief. Want to take you to elope and run to the farthest town. I want to elope with you and be the happiest person. "

growing up, my cousin is a very cool person. When he was in the first year of junior high school, he dared to ride a motorcycle to take us to the black Internet bar. When he didn't go to the Internet bar, he took us to the rooftop, tired out a stove with red brick, then put the tile pot on the brick, poured in raw rice, flour sausage, and pork, and then we contributed exercise books and examination papers, which were called "picnics". In essence, "play with fire".

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and one day in the third year of junior high school, he suddenly decided to travel around the world, so he took his schoolbag and clothes on a Friday night and left them alone. It was not until two days later that relatives found him in the next town. Although he was beaten, he swore to us: "one day, I will go to Africa to play guitar."

I arrived at my hometown in Hunan in the middle of the night before his wedding. My cousin was waiting for us at the door. After getting off the bus, his first words were: "here you are, boy."

Yes, it's a good thing there's no traffic jam. " I wiped my face with my hands.

cousin is no longer the unruly teenager of that year, and his ponytail has been cut off for several years, in return for a more refreshing short hair.

he is more mature and looks more reliable than before.

two.

on the highway from Dongguan to Hunan, my aunt told us about my cousin's love story.

after my cousin came to Hunan's high school from Dongguan that year, he happened to be in the same class as his sister-in-law.

at first sight, my sister-in-law fell in love with her cousin. But my cousin is unruly and unmoved no matter how hard his sister-in-law makes it. My cousin's favorite movie is Wong Kar-wai's The True Story of Alfie. I still remember when he was a child while playing the guitar, he said to us, "what's so good about marriage?" I want to travel around the world. "

but we all know that behind the aloof is the "desire to be loved", so my cousin is still melted.

they established a relationship in their last year of high school, both in their first love.

but it's not all plain sailing after being together. My aunt is a head taller than my uncle, so she cares more about the height of the woman. On the night when I first met them in the street, my aunt said to her cousin very seriously, "she's too short. I don't like her."

cousin's stubborn temper, said: "I fell in love, not you."

No matter how painstaking the family is, my cousin never gave in. After graduation, my cousin took his sister-in-law to Shenzhen and started their lives from scratch.

until their aunt stopped objecting, they had no plans to go back to Hunan.

three.

I went back to my hometown. It was the first time I saw my sister-in-law.

I haven't been in contact for a long time, but I can also know that my sister-in-law and cousin are two completely different people. Cousin cold, she warm; cousin rebellious, she is clever; cousin smart, she is a little stupid.

how to understand this stupidity? it was boring at that time, so everyone decided to play mahjong to kill time. My sister-in-law touched the chicken three times, and each time she turned around and asked us, "what is this?"

We tell her every time: "Yoji."

but the next time she touches it, she still has to ask again.

at that time, my cousin was sitting behind her. For the fifth time, he couldn't help shouting, "this is Yaoji, Yoji!" You idiot, stop asking questions. "

when we heard that sentence, we all couldn't help laughing, but my sister-in-law looked aggrieved and turned to her cousin and said, "would I like you if I wasn't stupid?"

one second my cousin was still putting on airs, and the next he was "helpless but happy". It made me instantly understand why they had been together for so long.

I thought my sister-in-law had transformed my cousin, but after that day, I found that I was wrong. My cousin was not reformed at all, he just made some changes for the people he liked.

he is as handsome and clever as ever, but he needs another person who admires him anytime and anywhere to catch up with his handsome moments, which sounds a little too male chauvinist. But in fact, this is mutual, because she is "stupid", so she can not understand all the truth (or can "pretend not to understand"), and the sophistry and explanation in every argument become irrelevant, and my cousin's cleverness is useless.

in the end, only with sincerity can we coax her back.

I began to understand why he chose the song "elopement" on his wedding day.

it's not because he still sticks to his innate stubbornness, and then takes her to pursue the happiness he wants regardless of all obstacles.

but because he made a decision, as long as it was for her, he could be less stubborn, not so smart, and become calmer, from Hunan to Shenzhen, from an assistant to a photographer who can support people today.

in the past, he only thought of the first half of the sentence, "I want to take you to elope."

now he has only one goal, and that is to let her "be the happiest person".

maybe my cousin's love can be regarded as the "best love".

four.

I have been struggling with this article. These entanglements stem from the fact that I don't know if I should conclude the "best love". Because in my bones, I always feel that no matter how hard we try, we never know when we will meet the best.Love ".

even before you meet him /her, you never know what the "best love" looks like.

in that case, give up the formula that satisfies everyone.

good night.